You’re not doing anything wrong

If you have well-intentioned people in your life attempting to coax you into what they think should be the next phase of your healing, this message is for you.

There is only one right way to grieve, and that’s your way, on your terms and on your timeline.

The vast majority of people simply do not understand. And to be fair, neither did we. Until we did.  

Give them an A for effort, and then let them be wrong about what you “should be” doing.

And also, notice if you tell yourself that you’re doing it wrong -  that you should be further along by now, that somehow you’re standing in your own way.

What if you’re not doing anything wrong?

The more you judge yourself and your journey, the less you’re able to learn who you are today and what this version of you truly needs.

Inside of Life Reconstructed, my coaching program exclusively for widowed people, we acknowledge that the person in the mirror is different now, and we get curious about their needs in life after loss. Join us and gain a proven process to heal, along with a community of like-minded people who get it. Simply click below to learn more.